Commentary: SexEd That Develops Sexual Intelligence in Youth

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The debate over youth sexuality education revolves around whether to promote premarital abstinence or contraception, with considerations also given to consent and gender identity. A youth-centric approach acknowledges the unique needs of young individuals.
Firstly, it recognizes that the adolescent brain is still developing until the mid-20s, making them prone to impulsive decisions driven by emotions. Hence, they need guidance from parents and trusted adults to make rational choices.
Peer influence plays a significant role in shaping adolescent behavior, so fostering positive peer influence is crucial. Adolescents often fear social exclusion, leading to behaviors aimed at fitting in.
A youth-centric approach aims to equip young people with age-appropriate information, emphasizing sexual intelligence. It promotes safe and responsible decision-making, ideally leading to delayed sexual activity.
Regarding contraception, it acknowledges that condoms, while effective when used correctly, often fail due to inconsistent usage, especially among youth. Promoting contraception can inadvertently encourage risky behavior if not coupled with risk assessment skills.
Consent education is crucial, but it should also include values-based teachings to help youth make informed and responsible decisions.
Abstinence education is research-informed, responsible, relevant, and realistic. It emphasizes risk avoidance or elimination given the cognitive limitations of youth. Abstinence aligns with the developmental stage of adolescents and offers multiple benefits for mental health and future relationships.
In conclusion, a youth-centric sexuality education approach considers developmental stages, cognitive limitations, and the well-being of young individuals. It provides comprehensive information while emphasizing abstinence as a responsible and effective choice.
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